tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22402209.post7299905127650432540..comments2023-10-28T04:45:40.173-04:00Comments on Dr. Benton Quest: Happy Coming Out Day!BentonQuesthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09007300481037924684noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22402209.post-24204349755212811452007-10-13T17:17:00.000-04:002007-10-13T17:17:00.000-04:00in this day and age, people in the closet at least...in this day and age, people in the closet at least know that resources and other people are out there.<BR/>so the ones who want to come out will find the way.Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22402209.post-70134654461266182292007-10-12T10:35:00.000-04:002007-10-12T10:35:00.000-04:00God help me, I wasn't convinced by some ex-gay min...God help me, I wasn't convinced by some ex-gay ministry to get married. I heard it from society, and the church - I definitely had a case of "the love that dared not speak its name." I'd had "gay=pansy=failure" drilled into me for so long that I just wasn't going there.<BR/><BR/>And my ex-wife is one of them who's feeling every bit of what these women feel. Thank God I didn't cave-in to her demands that we have kids before we separated - the damage (and the lineage) stops here.<BR/><BR/>Free at last, free at last - thank God almighty, we are free at last. But oh, the wreckage some of us have caused to achieve that freedom...Steve F.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12697100521186605498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22402209.post-26225051179212205732007-10-11T07:34:00.000-04:002007-10-11T07:34:00.000-04:00No, Ben, some of us are still in the congregation....No, Ben, some of us are still in the congregation. Thank you for sharing this. It weighs heavily upon my heart.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com