tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22402209.post6718475404107868679..comments2023-10-28T04:45:40.173-04:00Comments on Dr. Benton Quest: Self DefinitionBentonQuesthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09007300481037924684noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22402209.post-47514663183267231072007-12-05T00:13:00.000-05:002007-12-05T00:13:00.000-05:00it sounds like what you call self definition relat...it sounds like what you call self definition relates to what Jungians call complexes. when one takes over, it snoockers you into thinking that is 'you'. then you realize it is not 'you' and it leads to re-defining the Self - no longer that complex. <BR/>however, you are talking near the end about changing your persona, which may not be your Self per se.<BR/>challenging.Ur-spohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237644452200889946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22402209.post-25975671913381890282007-12-04T22:41:00.000-05:002007-12-04T22:41:00.000-05:00So many years of "convincing" myself I was straigh...So many years of "convincing" myself I was straight! I understand. There is relief in accepting my gayness for myself, but still that "re-definition" takes time. Anything worthwhile, does. So I'm told.<BR/><BR/>Go easy on yourself. And congrats on the "anniversary" Hope you celebrated well!Vic Mansfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194671996997775313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22402209.post-46406971678625738092007-12-04T20:32:00.000-05:002007-12-04T20:32:00.000-05:00I think you were wise to tell your rector of your ...I think you were wise to tell your rector of your appreciation and explain why it might not seem so at times. I think it will help her help you as you deal with you redefinition.<BR/><BR/>I relate to what you are saying and I have come to accept that such redefinition is a process that lasts as long as we live - if we are honest with ourselves.Lemuelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15397995062492531171noreply@blogger.com